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So far Désiré has created 161 blog entries.

Writing with depression 

2021-07-20T16:30:50+00:00February 2nd, 2021|• Reshare, A War of Words Blog|

Everyone has had a shit year, there is absolutely no questioning that. All over the world, people have experienced being locked in their homes, trapped by an invisible foe. It’s very real and most people are understandably frustrated by it. And I have written about this year being particularly shit for me, but this pandemic has only made the underlying

The origin story of my sexual abuse 

2021-07-20T16:30:30+00:00January 26th, 2021|• Featured, • Reshare, Heal Thyself|

Yes, you read that correctly. I have alluded to this before on this blog, but I haven’t really given the full story about it, or how it started. This is the tell-all some have been waiting for. I have enough material to write a book about this, and I am but today, it’s just going to be an article, detailing

Perfectionism is the secret to unlocking genius 

2021-07-20T16:29:48+00:00January 12th, 2021|• Featured, • Reshare, In Search of Myself|

When we talk about the Greats, these people of magnificent prowess in the highest ranks of their respective fields, we think about them being born into their roles, as though their success was somehow preordained, fated. We have been taught that genius comes from those exceptional people who are born that way, but the fact remains that these people were

An eye for an eye leaves the world blind 

2021-07-20T16:29:27+00:00January 7th, 2021|• Reshare, Deep Thoughts|

Mahatma Gandhi’s legacy is one of peace and forgiveness, something that is massively lacking in the tumultuous world around us. A quick scroll through social media shows how massively broken this world is. So much hate, violence and greed. So many people are suffering, emotionally, mentally and physically on a daily basis and instead of healing, they are subjected to

2020 was a weird year for me, but for strange reasons 

2021-07-20T16:29:13+00:00January 6th, 2021|• Reshare, Alpha Woman|

Before your train of thought even goes there, yes I am fully cognisant that 2020 was a shit year for everyone, however, it was a weird one for me. Compared to a very large segment of the world, my year was fantastic: my business grew, my family was safe, and I was shielding since the first lockdown, enabling my lifelong

Can anyone be a brilliant writer? 

2021-07-20T16:27:50+00:00January 5th, 2021|• Featured, • Reshare, A War of Words Blog|

Anyone can be an average writer, but being a talented writer, that’s something special. Writing is hard work, requires a lot of time, an ability to brood and ruminate, and can be a praise-less job until you hit the bestsellers list. Society looks down at writers with a sense of disdain, because of the parasitic starving artist stereotype, and they

Chapter three: finding the writer within

2021-06-15T05:07:52+00:00November 13th, 2020|• Featured, • Reshare, In Search of Myself|

Stuck. Frozen in perpetual frustration, the moment my eyes look at my blank manuscript, littered with a sparse outline masquerading as something substantial. This is every time I open a personal scrivener project. For six years, I’ve felt the cold chill in my bones of writing something that might become a book. Finding myself as a writer on this scale

Chapter One: What am I searching for?

2021-06-15T05:05:50+00:00October 30th, 2020|• Reshare, In Search of Myself|

What is the search of myself about?  We spend our entire lives trying to figure out who we are and what our purpose is on earth. Who am I? What am I supposed to be doing? What’s my life purpose? What does my soul yearn to do? These are all the questions we ask ourselves when we’re in the darkest

Current Mood

2021-02-20T14:07:01+00:00October 13th, 2020|Through the Eye of the Storm|

Mood today. 6 client projects due, gods know how much work to be done, and I'm a mono-tasker who deep dives into a project until completion. I don't do routine things well, but I'm trying this adulting thing. Consistently feeling like I'm failing but hey! I'm trying. That's important... right? Imposter syndrome, please pack your bags and go on a

12/10/2020

2021-07-20T16:41:20+00:00October 12th, 2020|Reveries|

Padding quietly down the creaky stairs in my black ankle socks, so not to wake anyone, the smell of burnt toast streamed from the kitchen, filling my nose and jumpstarting my appetite. My stomach growled and I looked around to see if anyone else heard it curse me in a language foreign to all but me. The aroma lingered from

In Search of Myself

2021-07-20T16:27:33+00:00September 26th, 2020|In Search of Myself|

Hi there, you are reading the first page of the In Search of Myself live book. What is this about anyway? In Search of Myself, as I write it today, is about my journey; navigating the world in my 30’s, balancing a career in an ever changing world, learning to accept myself and understanding what makes me tick. This is

A time of transition

2021-06-15T05:07:52+00:00September 26th, 2020|• Featured, • Reshare, C'est Ma Vie!|

I never would have thought that I would actually be a career writer. I never had that dream as a young girl, reading all those books and dreaming of spending my days clacking away at fiction. In fact, I thought I was good, but average at best. To be completely honest, I still don’t feel like my writing is anything

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